A Simple Trick to Feel Less Nervous During Your Civil Ceremony

Written By Apresh Chavda

We’ve seen it all—tears, laughter, nerves, and all the magical in-between moments. And while every civil or church ceremony is different, there’s one little tip we love to share with couples because it works every time: hold hands.

For brides; picture this: you’ve just walked down the aisle. Your bouquet is now safely in your maid of honor’s hands. You’re standing in front of the love of your life. Everyone’s watching. The moment is beautiful, but let’s be honest—it can also feel a bit nerve-wracking.

Here’s where the magic happens. Just reach out, take their hand, and hold on. Trust us. This simple act makes a world of difference.

1. It grounds you

Holding hands is like saying, “I’m right here with you.” It’s an instant way to feel connected and steady, even when your heart is racing. With so much going on, it’s easy to feel swept up in the moment. But that one small gesture? It brings everything back to the two of you.

2. It Calms the nerves

Feeling a little shaky? Totally normal. But when your fingers find theirs, something shifts. You’ll feel your shoulders drop, your breath slow down, and maybe even a smile sneak onto your face. That’s the power of touch.

3. It makes for unscripted, beautiful photos

As your photographers, we’re watching for the real stuff—the tiny, meaningful moments that show your love. Holding hands adds a natural, emotional layer to your photos. It tells a story of closeness, comfort, and shared joy.

4. It says what words can’t

Sometimes words just aren’t enough. Holding hands is your way of saying, “We’ve got this,” without saying a thing. It’s a quiet but powerful reminder that you’re in it together.

5. It makes everything feel more natural

Civil and church ceremonies can sometimes feel a little formal or unfamiliar. Holding hands softens that. It adds warmth and intimacy, making the moment feel more like you.

A Few Tips from Us

  • Go with what feels good: Whether it’s a light touch or fingers laced together, there’s no right or wrong way.

  • Keep it relaxed: No need for a death grip! Just a gentle hold works wonders.

  • Have a quick chat beforehand: Mention it during your rehearsal or even in the car ride over, so it feels like second nature on the day.

Apresh Chavda